We highly recommend reading Part 1 of this series before diving into this blog.
Just as humans have preferences when it comes to the people or groups they associate with, dogs also have their own social preferences. While watching in-house dogs interact with street dogs can be a heartwarming sight, it is important to recognize that not every in-house dog and street dog will naturally form a friendship. Dogs, like us, have choices and emotions, and it's crucial to respect their individual preferences.
Forcing our dogs to have a certain relationship with any individual can be unfair and detrimental to their emotional and physical well-being. Dogs have the capacity to make choices, experience emotions, and establish their own boundaries. It is crucial that we respect their autonomy and allow them to dictate their social interactions to a huge extent.
“Dogs have the capacity to make choices, experience emotions, and establish their own boundaries”
It's important to acknowledge that not all dog friendships need to start with smooth communication. Some dogs may experience high levels of stress, making it difficult for them to effectively communicate, understand other dogs' communication and cope in that given situation. Our younger dog Sniper is a prime example of this. He finds it challenging to navigate around certain triggers, but he has formed a deep bond with the few street dog besties he has in life currently.
If you notice that your in - house dog appears stressed or uncomfortable around other dogs, it's crucial to work with them to build trust and understanding. Help them calm down and create a peaceful environment indoors before exposing them to any other triggers. Some dogs like our Sniper may thrive in the presence of puppies, female dogs, or even senior dogs, while others may have different preferences that align with their unique personalities. By taking the time to understand your dog's communication style and needs, you can avoid conflicts and foster harmonious relationships. With consistent efforts on our part, we can witness a gradual process of growth and resilience in our dogs, as they learn to cope one day at a time.
“If you notice that your in - house dog appears stressed or uncomfortable around other dogs, it's crucial to work with them to build trust and understanding.”
Take Away:
While street dog friendships can be wonderful and enriching for in-house dogs ( Read Part - 1 of this blog series), it is essential to acknowledge and respect their individual preferences. Just as not all humans get along with everyone they encounter, dogs also have their own preferences when it comes to socializing. By observing and understanding our dogs' stress levels, communication styles, and needs, we can create an environment that fosters positive and meaningful relationships. Remember, every dog is unique, and allowing them to choose their friends organically is the key to building genuine and fulfilling connections. As responsible parents, it is our duty to prioritize our dogs' well-being and emotional health.
Let us listen to our dogs more.
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